Diaper Bag Essentials: What This Mom Can't Leave the House Without

Being a first-time mom and the first in my friend group to have a baby, I had no idea what to pack in a diaper bag. I thought diapers and wipes would suffice, but having a baby quickly proved me wrong. Seeing other moms with massive backpacks finally made sense. So, I turned to TikTok for inspiration, where I overbought and overpacked. After some trial and error, I’ve finally nailed the perfectly packed diaper bag. Along with the essentials like diapers and wipes, here are some game-changing items I’ve found to keep things running smoothly.

First let’s talk about the diaper bag of my dreams.

Let me introduce you to the diaper bag of my dreams: the Beis Ultimate Diaper Backpack. Yes, it’s a splurge, but trust me, it’s worth every penny—and perfect for your registry wishlist. This bag is a lifesaver for staying organized on the go, with a pocket for everything, including a wipe dispenser and insulated bottle holders. The pièce de résistance? A fold-out changing station with a plush pad, because not every bathroom has a changing table (seriously, why not?!). Plus, the removable fanny pack is perfect for quick errands. It’s functional, stylish, and 100% mom-approved.

Let’s get into my staples (minus the chaos)—those go-to items that every parent should keep in their diaper bag, no matter their baby’s age. These are the staples that save the day, and will make every outing feel a little more manageable . With these on hand, you’ll always feel prepared for whatever comes your way. Let’s get your bag packed like a seasoned pro.

This is one of those things I hope I never need, but always carry just in case. This kit is designed by both a mom and a nurse, making it both practical and thoughtful. It's compact, TSA-approved, and perfect for keeping in your diaper bag or purse. It includes all the essentials and more—tweezers, nail clippers, safety pins, antibiotic ointment, and even some fun stickers for your little one. A true lifesaver for traveling parents!

The LifeVac is a portable airway suction device that can be a lifesaver in an emergency situation. While it’s a bit bulky, it’s absolutely worth the space in my diaper bag for peace of mind. I’ve never had to use it, but knowing I’m prepared—especially with the baby starting solids—is reassuring. I like this bundle because you can have one at home and one on the go.

A diaper cream brush is one of those game-changer products I wish I’d known about sooner. I used to rely on rubber gloves to apply diaper rash cream, but this little tool is a total lifesaver. It’s compact, has its own case to keep everything sanitary, and is super easy to clean. It keeps the mess to a minimum, making diaper changes a little bit smoother.

Which brings me to my next essential, Calmoseptine Ointment. It has a multi-purpose moisture barrier and is amazing for diaper rash. I’ve tried so many products, but nothing works like this. Every time I’ve used it, the diaper rash is gone in just 1-2 days. Plus, it’s affordable compared to other options, so it’s definitely a staple in my diaper bag. You’ll want to have this on hand for more than just diaper rash—it’s just that good!

Miss Mouth’s Messy Stain Treater is a TikTok find that I am so thankful for. It is pure sorcery in a bottle. This “parental essential,” as the label proudly claims, is a lifesaver for tackling even the most stubborn stains. From berries to pasta sauce to even blood (yes, blood!), this miracle solution has come through every time. It’s not just for parents—this is a must-have for anyone who values saving their clothes from unexpected disasters. Trust me once you own it, you’ll wonder how you lived without it!

We all have a collection of water bottles somewhere in a cabinet, but this one’s my favorite for the diaper bag. It’s leak-proof and slim, so it doesn’t take up too much room in your diaper bag. I chose to formula feed for my mental health, and this bottle was a lifesaver for making bottles on the go. Now that my son is on solids, it's perfect for refilling his sippy cup. It's a must-have for clean water when you're out and about— especially since I don't trust water fountains!

Need I say more? It’s a must-have for quickly sanitizing your hands or babies on the go. I keep this in my bag for those moments when soap and water just aren’t available. It's compact, effective, and easy to use—definitely an essential for every parent (and really, anyone)!

The last essential on my list: Extra Clothes. I always carry an extra outfit for baby in case of a blowout, messy snack, or any unexpected mess. But here's the twist— I also pack an extra shirt for myself and dad. It’s usually just a plain t-shirt in my husband’s size (easy to throw on when needed). A tip my mom gave me, and let me just say, it’s been a lifesaver more times than I can count. It’s important to think about yourself too when packing a diaper bag.

Whether you're a first-time parent or just trying to figure out what to toss into your diaper bag, I hope this gives you a little inspiration for your must-haves! Remember, your diaper bag is meant to make outings more manageable, so pack what works best for your family. This is just what works for mine!